A Church Planter Story -- Jim had started Redeemer’s House about six years prior to calling me. He spoke about his passion, his vision, and all that had transpired the last five years of worship. The church was averaging 200 people in regular worship. He had a couple part time staff guys and one full time assistant. In many respects, it had been a good ride but he was tired. He wasn’t sure about the future of the church. Then he said one of the most common beliefs I hear from planters in the 5th to 7th year of their plant: “I think I might have taken this church as far as I can. Maybe I need to leave and let the next guy take it to the next level.”
Have you ever had that thought? If you are in (or have been in) the critical 5-7 years post launch of your church I suspect you have. If you have just started or in your first years you might as well get prepared. Unless the church takes off like a rocket — the average church plant after 4 years is 100 people — you will probably think just as Jim did.
I completely understand the why for thinking this way. In fact, there may be many reasons. Some Planters experience discouragement. The church you now lead is not the one you envisioned six years ago. You had hoped for people to be more engaged, committed and generous. You thought there would be more conversions to Christ. People you loved and helped have left.
For other Planters it is just plain tiredness. Let’s face it. Starting a church is hard work. For some it’s the new challenges of managing people and things that have to get done. Maybe you are better at vision and ideas and managing people is boring and difficult for you.
I suspect that you are probably in the weekly grind of sermon and services prep — the relentless return of the Sabbath — and there’s little margin for thinking and visioning. You grab ideas here and there from podcasts or articles in Church Planter Magazine but you don’t have time for thinking and praying.
Plenty of Church Planters have other valid reasons for thinking about letting the next guy work on the new church. For Jim, the main reason was not having a facility to use every day of the week. The people were worn out from setting up and breaking down each Sunday in the middle school cafeteria. However there was a deeper, internal stress that, “Well, being totally honest,” he admitted. “I thought we would be at a thousand people by now. All my experience has been in a very large church.”
Apart from the early launching of first services, this 5 to 7 year period may be the most critical time in the life cycle of the work. My experience has shown me that when a founding pastor leaves, the church will lose between 25 to 30% of its people. Sometimes the church loses 50% (depending on the guy that follows the founding pastor). That is a hardship hardly anyone can overcome.
Longevity of the founding Planter is a key component — not a guarantee — but a key nevertheless in a church with sustained health, reproduction and growth. Thom Rainer pointed out, “Long pastoral tenure was not the single most answer to struggling American churches….long tenure is one of the key requisites for churches to move from goodness to greatness.”
So what can a Planter do?
Your health and the health and thriveability of your family is most important. No magic wands can be waved to make that happen. A church planting Gospel Coach can help a lot. If you don’t have one, don’t delay. No matter how great a Planter you’ve been so far, a Gospel Coach can help with the health and sustainability you need. I’m not talking about a life coach or a buddy that’s planted before. Even the best golfers in the world have a golf coach. You need a church planting coach that is able to bring the Gospel to bear on all aspects of your life — Relational, Personal, Missional and Spiritual.
I like what Chris Wright wrote about the mission of the church — “It is not so much the case that God has a mission for his church in the world, as that God has a church for his mission in the world. Mission was not made for the church; the church was made for mission — God’s mission" (The Mission of God, 62).
One of the essential ingredients in you seeing health and reproduction is to review and renew the mission God has for your city and what place your church has in that mission. This happens with times of prayer and renewal, first with you and then with your leaders. I suspect they are not sure what the core of the mission is that you are on now. As you seek the Lord together you will get shared ownership of the missio dei. If you need help, that is available as well.
God’s calling is God’s enabling. As I’ve written elsewhere, you are perfectly righteous in Jesus so you have nothing to prove. You are eternally loved so you have nothing to fear. You are completely forgiven so you have nothing to hide.
Remember, you don’t have to plant a church alone. Never before have there been more resources for training as there are now. If you want to have a gospel-centered church, it’s important to have a gospel-centered coach. Church Planter Coaching is an intentional gospel conversation with focused discussions about the planter’s relational, personal, missional and spiritual life. Click here if you would like to learn more about getting a C.R.O.S.S. Coach to help encourage and equip you every step along the way.
Dr. Tom Wood
I've been in the Church Planting business my entire career. I want you to know, you don't have to plant a church alone!